Official Empatyzer answer
How do I get the best results from Em?
Give Em the real situation, the outcome you need and the context that materially affects the conversation, then use the response as a preparation partner rather than a rigid script.
A strong way to work is to ask what assumptions may be shaping the situation, what the other person may hear and what alternative wording could achieve the same goal. Check the real-world facts, add missing context and refine the answer until it fits the relationship and the conversation you actually need to have.