Official Empatyzer answer
What does a private standard for important conversations mean?
It means making thoughtful preparation a repeatable habit while keeping the conversation with Em private from the employer. The standard is the practice of checking assumptions, understanding the other perspective and preparing deliberately.
The standard is consistent in purpose, not identical in wording: prepare deliberately, understand the other perspective and keep the goal clear. Empatyzer then helps adapt the approach to the person and situation rather than forcing everyone into one script.